Distance makes the heart grow fonder…

Deployment can cast a heavy shadow over your marriage, but there are many reasons to maintain a positive marital growth mindset. Research has shown that many couples who have gone through multiple deployments actually report increased marital satisfaction with each deployment. Translation: They get better and better at staying connected. You can too. 

The OXYGEN Assessment will help you and your partner discover your individual personality types, personal motivators, areas of satisfaction within your relationship, and areas that can use more love and attention.

BLOGS

Trust is the foundation of a healthy marriage. It’s like oil in a car engine, heat in an oven, Beyoncé in Destiny’s Child. Without it, things just don’t work well.  Ideally, marital trust should grow with time. It’s a glue in your relationship that ought to get stronger, even though it isn’t always the case.…

OXYGEN 365 VIDEOS

UNDERSTANDING THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS WITH NOEL AND KARISSA MEADOR

What is the secret to lasting love? According to recent science, there are a few factors. But, one of the main areas that impact lasting love is forgiveness. The ability to forgive your partner and receive forgiveness allows couples to work through conflict and move forward. Whether dealing with small daily misunderstandings or larger betrayals, forgiveness makes all the difference in love relationships. But, it sure doesn’t always come easy.

10 LESSONS TO TRANSFORM YOUR MARRIAGE – WITH DRS. JOHN & JULIE GOTTMAN

Drs. John and Julie Gottman, co-founders of the Gottman Institute and authors of 10 Lessons to Transform Your Marriage—unpack the two types of problems every couple faces: perpetual problems and solvable problems. These types of problems can create friction in a marriage, but smart couples know how to avoid a gridlock and seek to have healthy conflict conversations by approaching discussions with kindness, understanding, and compassion.

LEARN YOUR LOVE STYLE & FIND THE LOVE YOU WANT – WITH MILAN AND KAY YERKOVICH

Milan and Kay Yerkovich—experts in the field of parenting and marriage and authors of How We Love—discuss how each married couple must deal with the negative emotions and behaviors learned during childhood. By identifying their unique personality, creating a safe space to be vulnerable, and embracing their different love styles, couples can grow their emotional connection and build healthy lines of communication.

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The Argument-Free Marriage

Fawn Weaver—founder of “The Happy Wives Club” blog and author of The Argument-Free Marriage—discusses how every couple can lay the groundwork to create a marriage free from arguments. Every couple has certain topics that are triggers for an argument. In those moments right before an argument, the key is to pause and realize that you and your spouse are not speaking from a place of vulnerability and, therefore, are no longer communicating effectively. Instead, pause, step back, and investigate the “original emotion,” or the true emotion that is driving the argument and work forward from there. When both spouses can speak from a place of vulnerability, an argument-free marriage is possible.

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EBOOKS

Affair-Proofing Your Marriage

You may be thinking, There’s no way that would happen to our marriage. However, the possibility of infidelity in your marriage is, unfortunately, always present. (No matter how in love, secure or careful you both are.) While there’s no guarantee for anything in life, there are tangible steps you can take to create an infidelity-resistant relationship!

Dead Bedroom

Sex (or the lack thereof) is an issue in most marriages, but we rarely talk about it. Even though it’s easy to do (hey-o), it’s also pretty complicated. Human sexuality is more than just biological, it’s also a mix of complex relationship dynamics and psychological biases. Throw in any past trauma or baggage and you’ve got a recipe for complication. Dead Bedroom is a journey through each room in your home and how it contributes to your sex life.

Love Notes Series

Love Notes is a collection of valuable relationship insights from interviews with the leading relationship experts and Noel Meador, host of The OXYGEN Show. Special guests have included Drs. John and Julie Gottman, Fawn Weaver, Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs, Scott Haltzman, and many more. Topics covered: Communication, Family, Health & Wellness, Intimacy & Infidelity

SERIES

Deeper

Deeper is a 30-day email series where you’ll get daily tips, tools, and encouragement to take your marriage to the deep end. Every part of Deeper is research-based and home-tested.  It is delivered each day in an email that is engaging, relatable, and most importantly – gets to the point and keeps it real.

ReVITALize Your Marriage

ReVITALize Your Marriage is a week-long series of 7 straightforward concepts that you can immediately apply to your marriage. Each day you’ll receive a text and email with a video explaining the core concept of the day with realistic ideas on how to put it into practice.

Heart to Heart

Over the next 7 days, you and your spouse can go on a journey together – just by opening a text. Heart To Heart is a 7-day love-strengthening text series for couples like you. It’ll take no more than 10 minutes out of your day, but you and your spouse can feel the effects for a lifetime.

MARRIAGE COURSES

After I Do: The Complete Guide to Newlywed Life

Even if you’ve dated for an eternity… Marriage is a whole new thing. And it’s not always easy. After I Do is a COMPLETE guide for those first 5 years of marriage, when everything is new and sweet… and freaking difficult. Even if you’ve dated for years, going from ME to WE is a huge transition and sometimes you just need a little (or a lot) of sage wisdom. Our relationship experts will guide you and your spouse through 12 modules covering all the hot topics of marriage!

Maximize Your Marriage

Wherever your marriage is today, that’s where Maximize Your Marriage starts your next chapter. In every great story, the characters face obstacles. The story of your marriage is no different. But now you’ll get the tools you need to help you overcome the obstacles. Our relationship experts will guide you and your spouse through 7 key concepts that will help turn your story around or make sure it stays headed in the right direction.

Understand Your Spouse & Deepen Your Relationship

Listening well, vulnerability, and mutual respect are some of the hardest parts of marriage. But without them, your relationship may never reach the level of intimacy you desire. Understand Your Spouse & Deepen Your Relationship is an online course that is designed to guide you and your spouse on a transformational journey to develop deeper communication and strengthen your marriage! All the essential tools to transform your marriage are packed into 5 modules that will help you feel more loved and deeply understood by each other!

Discover Deeper Intimacy in Your Marriage

In order to have a deeper intimacy in your marriage, you need practical skills and simple strategies to eliminate the barriers that keep you stuck in a sexless rut. Discover Deeper Intimacy in Your Marriage is a 5-part online course that is designed to guide you and your spouse on a transformational journey to deepen your emotional and physical connection! If you want to see a change in your marriage, start with these key 5 moves that will jumpstart your sex drive and keep that engine running smoothly! Are you ready to reignite those sparks?

DATE NIGHTS

JOINED AT THE HEART

Want to build a secure fulfilling relationship? Emotional Intimacy is key. This date night helps you refocus on one another to rekindle and maintain a close emotional bond that stands the test of time. Grab writing utensils, paper, your favorite snacks, and get ready to get closer.

FOCUS ON FORGIVENESS

We know that forgiveness doesn’t always come as naturally as we might hope. This date night focuses on forgiveness fact and fiction, and aligning your views in order to build a marriage that can withstand life’s ups and downs.

SPRING CLEANING

It’s time to clear out the old and make room for the new! For this date, you’ll “clean up” a few lists in your life by crossing an item or two off of your “Honey-Do” List, your Wish List, and your Resentment List. Don’t toss this date out!

FRESH SEASON, FRESH START

Is it time for a fresh start in. your relationship? This two-part date night combines a new activity that will inspire deep one-on-one conversation. Renew your commitments and hopes for the coming year.

GAME NIGHT TRIATHLON

This date idea is thrifty, so you’ll get a head start on your resolution to budget better. Pick three of your favorite games and get ready to have a fun game night together!

I GOT YOU, BABE

Differences keep a relationship interesting! This date invites you to explore two interests together — one of yours and one of your partner’s. Venture into new territory as a couple while you support another’s individual passions.

LOVE & MONEY

Money fights can drive couples apart. But your bank balance doesn’t have to be a course of stress. A shared vision of your financial future can bring you closer. This date highlights your money priorities, fears, and goals.

MAD ABOUT YOU

We all deal with anger differently: some people like to process intense emotions alone, while others need to talk things through in the moment. This date will take you through the do’s and don’ts of anger and help you learn positive ways to navigate through it together.

LISTENING TO LOVE

What song draws you to each other? Which genre of music reminds you of your spouse? This date prompts you to turn down the volume of daily stressors and turn up the musical magic between you.

REAL-LIFE ROMANCE

Happily Ever After is a journey, not a destination. And it happens only at the intersection of romance and real life. This two-part date encourages you to explore ways to infuse romance into your everyday world.

THE ART OF COMMUNICATION

Keeping your communication healthy and thriving requires a lifetime of learning about one another and what brings each of you joy. This date is designed to give you new insights into your partner’s communication style and unique view of the world.

CORE CONNECTION

Connection takes communication. Too often, we talk to our partner without really communicating. This date night helps you tune into your partner’s verbal and non-verbal communication cues to help boost your couple connection.

HEAT UP YOUR MARRIAGE

Over many season of marriage, common intimacy killers like distrust, miscommunication, and lack of appreciation can silently steal warmth and joy from your relationship. This date night stops intimacy thieves in their tracks so your marriage will stay warm and cozy this season and beyond.

IT’S ABOUT TIME

Is your marriage a top priority? A peek at your daily calendar should let you know. This date helps you and your partner learn to dial down distractions and make time for your marriage.
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