Distance makes the heart grow fonder…
Deployment can cast a heavy shadow over your marriage, but there are many reasons to maintain a positive marital growth mindset. Research has shown that many couples who have gone through multiple deployments actually report increased marital satisfaction with each deployment. Translation: They get better and better at staying connected. You can too.
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The OXYGEN Assessment will help you and your partner discover your individual personality types, personal motivators, areas of satisfaction within your relationship, and areas that can use more love and attention.
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OXYGEN 365 VIDEOS
UNDERSTANDING THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS WITH NOEL AND KARISSA MEADOR
What is the secret to lasting love? According to recent science, there are a few factors. But, one of the main areas that impact lasting love is forgiveness. The ability to forgive your partner and receive forgiveness allows couples to work through conflict and move forward. Whether dealing with small daily misunderstandings or larger betrayals, forgiveness makes all the difference in love relationships. But, it sure doesn’t always come easy.
10 LESSONS TO TRANSFORM YOUR MARRIAGE – WITH DRS. JOHN & JULIE GOTTMAN
Drs. John and Julie Gottman, co-founders of the Gottman Institute and authors of 10 Lessons to Transform Your Marriage—unpack the two types of problems every couple faces: perpetual problems and solvable problems. These types of problems can create friction in a marriage, but smart couples know how to avoid a gridlock and seek to have healthy conflict conversations by approaching discussions with kindness, understanding, and compassion.
LEARN YOUR LOVE STYLE & FIND THE LOVE YOU WANT – WITH MILAN AND KAY YERKOVICH
Milan and Kay Yerkovich—experts in the field of parenting and marriage and authors of How We Love—discuss how each married couple must deal with the negative emotions and behaviors learned during childhood. By identifying their unique personality, creating a safe space to be vulnerable, and embracing their different love styles, couples can grow their emotional connection and build healthy lines of communication.
The Argument-Free Marriage
Fawn Weaver—founder of “The Happy Wives Club” blog and author of The Argument-Free Marriage—discusses how every couple can lay the groundwork to create a marriage free from arguments. Every couple has certain topics that are triggers for an argument. In those moments right before an argument, the key is to pause and realize that you and your spouse are not speaking from a place of vulnerability and, therefore, are no longer communicating effectively. Instead, pause, step back, and investigate the “original emotion,” or the true emotion that is driving the argument and work forward from there. When both spouses can speak from a place of vulnerability, an argument-free marriage is possible.
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Affair-Proofing Your Marriage
You may be thinking, There’s no way that would happen to our marriage. However, the possibility of infidelity in your marriage is, unfortunately, always present. (No matter how in love, secure or careful you both are.) While there’s no guarantee for anything in life, there are tangible steps you can take to create an infidelity-resistant relationship!
Dead Bedroom
Sex (or the lack thereof) is an issue in most marriages, but we rarely talk about it. Even though it’s easy to do (hey-o), it’s also pretty complicated. Human sexuality is more than just biological, it’s also a mix of complex relationship dynamics and psychological biases. Throw in any past trauma or baggage and you’ve got a recipe for complication. Dead Bedroom is a journey through each room in your home and how it contributes to your sex life.
Love Notes Series
Love Notes is a collection of valuable relationship insights from interviews with the leading relationship experts and Noel Meador, host of The OXYGEN Show. Special guests have included Drs. John and Julie Gottman, Fawn Weaver, Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs, Scott Haltzman, and many more. Topics covered: Communication, Family, Health & Wellness, Intimacy & Infidelity
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After I Do: The Complete Guide to Newlywed Life
Maximize Your Marriage
Wherever your marriage is today, that’s where Maximize Your Marriage starts your next chapter. In every great story, the characters face obstacles. The story of your marriage is no different. But now you’ll get the tools you need to help you overcome the obstacles. Our relationship experts will guide you and your spouse through 7 key concepts that will help turn your story around or make sure it stays headed in the right direction.
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Discover Deeper Intimacy in Your Marriage
In order to have a deeper intimacy in your marriage, you need practical skills and simple strategies to eliminate the barriers that keep you stuck in a sexless rut. Discover Deeper Intimacy in Your Marriage is a 5-part online course that is designed to guide you and your spouse on a transformational journey to deepen your emotional and physical connection! If you want to see a change in your marriage, start with these key 5 moves that will jumpstart your sex drive and keep that engine running smoothly! Are you ready to reignite those sparks?
7 Ways to Increase Trust in Marriage
Trust is the foundation of a healthy marriage. It’s like oil in a car engine, heat in an oven, Beyoncé in Destiny’s Child. Without it, things just don’t work well. Ideally, marital trust should grow with time. It’s a glue in your relationship that ought to get stronger, even though it isn’t always the case.…